You adore your spaniel but
Their separation anxiety is breaking your heart.
Peace is possible — for you both
Not sure where to begin? The 2-minute pathway quiz will point you in the right direction.
Academy for Dog Trainers (Honours) Graduate · Certified SA Pro Behaviour Consultant
It just takes patience, love, and consistency. You already have all three.
You're not imagining it, separation anxiety is hard…
It's overwhelming. You feel the emotional weight every time you reach for your keys, or the guilt as you close the door. Worry that travels around with you all day.
People might tell you that you just need to let them cry it out, or that you're making it worse by caring too much.
But you know it isn't just bad behaviour. This is a soulful spaniel who doesn't feel safe yet, when they're alone.
Carrying these emotions, day after day, is exhausting and lonely.
You've probably tried everything — long walks, calming music, supplements, distracting with treats, maybe even "crate and go."
Nothing works because these fixes treat the symptoms, not the cause. The cause is fear. With the right support, your spaniel can learn that they're safe on their own.
Your dog can discover that time alone is safe and predictable — find out more below.
This is what becomes possible…
There's no pressure or judgement when you work with me. No rushing your sensitive spaniel to an arbitrary finish line they're not yet ready for.
We work together to set your spaniel up for success with a clear pathway towards peace. Designed especially for your velcro spaniel, their emotional pace and your life.
You'll finally understand what's happening and why… and understanding changes everything.
Calm mornings & quiet goodbyes
Your dog settles and you can say goodbye without the dread and worry.
Freedom to live your life
You can stop tiptoeing through your life and start living it.
Confidence, not chaos
Your spaniel begins to feel safe and you begin to trust the process.
A deep bond without dependence
Your normally fun-loving spaniel learns that love doesn’t fade when you close the door.
Keys no longer signal danger
Keys now predict safety rather than inducing panic! Along with all those other clues that you might be leaving!
Paced progress, even through wobbles
Setbacks start to simply guide your next step.
Home becomes safe and peaceful
Not ready to take the next step yet?
That's okay.
Surviving Separation Anxiety is a free guide for spaniel owners carrying the emotional weight of this journey — the guilt, the wobble days, the moments when it all feels too much.
A full guide. Completely free. Yours instantly.
What People Are Saying
Right from the start, Kim created a relaxed atmosphere where our highly anxious cockerpoo, Ted, could focus, respond to and enjoy the techniques she had tailored for him. Her sessions were well structured and unrushed and we soon noticed an increase - not only in Ted’s confidence - but ours as well! After just a few sessions, he was noticeably more attentive and responsive. We were impressed with Kim’s understanding and knowledge of dog behaviour and would highly recommend - particularly with issues around anxiety.
- Angela & Ted
"Kim has been an amazing support for me and Lola. She helped me really understand Lola's needs and behaviour, and explained everything in a way that was clear, practical, and easy to follow. Kim is always kind, patient, and understanding, and her knowledge and experience really show in every session. I've learned so much and I feel far more confident as a dog owner thanks to her guidance. I wouldn't hesitate to recommend Kim to anyone looking for a knowledgeable, supportive, and genuinely caring dog trainer."
— Sarah & Lola (honorary spaniel!)
"I can't recommend Kim highly enough. She has spent years training and learning so she can truly give dogs the very best support. You can tell how much she genuinely cares about the dogs & the owners. She's the best😊🐶"
— Nicky
Your Journey from Panic to Peace with 4 Peaceful Paws
You don’t have to face separation anxiety alone I am your spaniel’s translator, think teaching spaniel as a foreign language!
I understand what your spaniel is communicating, and recognise those fleeting signs right before they start saying:
“Umm, where are you? Are you coming back? I’m starting to feel a tiny bit worried.”
— An uneasy spaniel
That is the secret to successful training. Your spaniel has to completely trust you’re coming back before they feel unsafe.
Translator
Teacher
I’ll level with you, anxiety, whether it’s based on fear or frustration based (yes dogs get FOMO too!) cannot be fixed in a single session. That would be like attending one therapy session and expecting to be cured of a longstanding phobia.
It takes time, consistency and really good training plans! Because everyone situation is unique, I have different options to get you on your pathway to peace.
Find support that's right for you
Tired, overwhelmed, not even sure where to start?
Your Spaniel, Your Story
£65 | 45 minutesJust us talking about your spaniel. You share your story, I help find the path. Zero pressure to commit to anything more.
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Finding Freedom
Who it’s for
Spaniels who struggle with alone-time and need to build a foundation of safety
Why it helps
We’ll find your spaniels safe time
You’ll learn how to talk spaniel
You’ll learn how to help your dog begin their journey to safe alone time
Peace by Piece
Who it’s for
For spaniels already on their journey — whether that's with me, with someone else, or on your own. If you know your spaniel's current safe time, this is your next step.
Why it helps
During each 4‑week block, your Spaniel keeps building calm, confidence, and home‑alone safety — with support you can renew for as long as they need.
Flying Solo
Who it’s for
Graduates of Finding Freedom or Peace by Piece — keep flying
App Access Only — Independent learners who want clear daily plans straight to their phone.
1:1 Coaching Session — Graduates who want occasional support to keep moving forward confidently.
Why I do this
Hi, I’m Kim a spaniel loving dog behaviour geek!
I created 4 Peaceful Paws to help anxious dogs feel safe and to guide the people who love them through the emotional ups and downs of separation anxiety.
You’ll hear me talk a lot about Kobi — my cocker spaniel, he lives with IVDD and CIE. On his bad days, I can't leave him because he's in pain - he needs me.
I know first-hand what it feels like to cancel plans, yearn over popping out for coffee and cake, to carry another soul’s suffering with you through the day and night.
That emotional weight & loving a dog whose needs feel bigger than your life, is something I understand deeply.
It's why I work the way I do. With patience, without pressure, and with genuine respect for how hard this is.
FAQs
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It’s okay to be unsure , especially if you’ve already tried so many things and nothing’s helped. But here’s the truth:
Separation anxiety isn’t a lost cause. Your dog isn’t broken. They’re just overwhelmed and they haven’t had the kind of support that meets them where they are.
This work is rooted in science and led with heart. I’ve supported dogs of all breeds, ages, and backgrounds. With consistency, kindness, and the right guidance, change is absolutely possible.
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It’s natural to want a timeline, to ask “how much longer will life feel like this?”
And while I can’t promise quick fixes, I can promise this: we’ll go as fast as your dog’s nervous system allows, without pushing or pressuring.
Most families start seeing meaningful shifts within a few months, sometimes sooner. The progress might be quiet at first, but it sticks. You won’t be doing this alone. And you won’t be stuck in support forever. I’ll help you build skills that last long after training ends.
Want to know more about the process?
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Yes , and we’ll talk about how.
Life keeps going, even while you’re supporting your dog. You may not be able to train and leave in the same moment, but we’ll work together to create a flexible plan that balances real life and steady progress.
That might mean a pet sitter, planning around departures, or simply choosing “management days” where the focus isn’t on training, just protecting your dog’s stress levels. You don’t need to be perfect, you just need a plan. And that’s what I’m here for.
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Not always, but sometimes, yes. Medication + Behaviour modification is a powerful combination and can give you the best chance to resolve your dogs separation anxiety.
Medication is not failure. It’s care.
If your dog is too anxious to feel safe, they might need support to calm their nervous system enough to even begin the learning process. Medication can give your dog emotional breathing room. It doesn’t replace training. It supports it.
This is never a one-size-fits-all decision. If we think it could help, I’ll guide you in having kind, informed conversations with your vet. No pressure, no judgement. Just options.
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You’ve probably already poured time, energy, and money into this. You’re exhausted. So yes, this question matters.
What I offer isn’t a quick course or one-size-fits-all solution. It’s thoughtful, 1:1 support designed around your dog, your home, your life. We’ll go slowly and gently but we will move forward.
If you want training that prioritises trust over pressure, that teaches you the tools to become your dog’s steady guide, then yes. This is worth it.
Because peace is possible — and you deserve it, too.
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I get it, when you’re investing your time, money and energy into something this important, you want to feel safe doing so.
And while I can’t promise exactly when your dog will be comfortable alone — no ethical trainer can — I can promise this:
🕊️ You’ll never be rushed or left guessing.
🕊️ Your dog will be met with compassion, not pressure.
🕊️ You’ll always know the “why” behind every step we take.
🕊️ You’ll have support through the wobbles, the setbacks, and the slow days.What I can guarantee is the quality of my care: thoughtful, responsive, evidence-based support tailored to your dog and your life. This work is deep and gentle — not transactional.
And when we stay committed to your dog’s safety and emotional wellbeing? That’s when real, lasting change becomes possible.
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All of my support is fully online and that’s by design.
Why? Because separation anxiety training works best when your dog is in their normal home environment, with no extra distractions or visitors (even lovely ones like a trainer!).
This approach allows us to observe your dog’s real responses and make quiet, intentional progress from the comfort of your own home.
🌿 No car rides.
🌿 No waiting rooms.
🌿 Just thoughtful, tailored support, delivered right where you and your dog need it most.Whether you're in the UK, across the globe, or in your dressing gown on the sofa — I'm right there with you, every step of the way.
What makes 4 Peaceful Paws different
Finding the right dog trainer is hard. You want to get it right.
I deliberately have a small client list, every plan, every message is designed just for you, and your spaniel.
Spaniel-savvy Expertise
Support shaped around sensitive, busy-brained spaniels.
Emotional Safety First
A judgement-free space, no one learns well when they feel judged or under pressure.
Direct Personal Support
Thoughtful online support whenever you need it.
Training plans 21st Century style!
Clear daily plans delivered straight to your phone through the SA Pro App.
Skills that last beyond training
You were never meant to stay in training forever. You’ll leave with the skills and confidence to work towards your alone time goals.
The “separated-together” promise
You are not alone, and neither is your spaniel. I work alongside your vet, your sitter, your family, everyone in your spaniel's corner. So your support is always cohesive.
Free for you — a gift for the hard days
A free 12-page handbook for spaniel owners who are just about holding it together.
Separation anxiety isn't just hard on your dog. It's hard on you — the guilt when you leave, the worry that travels with you all day, the loneliness of something nobody else quite understands.
This handbook won't fix everything overnight. But it will make you feel less alone.
Inside you'll find:
Permission to not be perfect — and why that actually makes you a better trainer
Honest words about timelines, so you can stop feeling behind
Gentle scripts for explaining your dog's anxiety to people who don't get it
A calm, judgement-free look at medication — when it helps and how to talk to your vet
A page for the wobble days, when it all feels too much
It's free. It takes 30 seconds to download. And it was written for exactly this moment.
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